HOW CAN YOU TELL

How you can tell somebody don't want to be with you.......... We all may have had a situation where we really wanted to be with somebody and they were everything that you thought you wanted and you may have got with them, it did not work out, you broke up, then you may have gotten back together. Or you may have had the situation where you wanted to be with somebody and they showed you interest, but just not enough for you to know whether or not they wanted to make something happen. BOTTOM LINE is that we need to stop wasting time with dead situations and if the person is not acting right THEN YOU AND I SHOULD MOVE ON. Ways to know whether the person you are dealing with really wants to be with you. 1. Do you talk to them on a regular basis? If not they probably got another idea going on in their head. They could possible be keeping you around until they find what they really want. If a person really likes you then they want to call and they want to spend time. IF they think you are just ok and not good enough, then that is how they will treat you as just OK. 2. If you all use to be together and they all of a sudden want to work it out. If this is truly meant to be then you should make them wait until you here clearly from the Lord. If you explain that to them and they still going on dates with other people GUESS WHAT YOU JUST BECAME THEIR OPTION. If that person swears up and down that you are the one and they cannot sustain themselves for a month or so to not go on a date or be seen with other men or women you should question their real motives. 3. Check to see if they have a lot of options(as in dates or other mates). When people have a lot of options they try to find the person that they want in many people and that is why they are upset when somebody smartens up and leaves them alone. 4. Ask them what they want or better yet ask them if they really want you........ If they cannot answer the question it is probably because they do not. We spend too much time hoping that somebody will want us besides praying for God to send us somebody that will love us. Someone you "Want" is someone you can get anywhere. A person you need is someone you cant live without and they don't come around often. Won't it be so much better when you can be equally yolked with another person. Doesn't it feel better when a person loves you just as much as you love them? (I FELT THAT ONE SO MUCH I HAD TO PAUSE).................... .... .......................... .... ............... 5.Understand that the person that you like so much now is not the last person living and that there is someone out there who is going to really care for you and not just drag you along. Sometimes we have to close our eyes in order to see what it is we really need. If you think that the person who really does not like you is the best thing you can get then imagine what God can do for you if you allow him to be the one to send it to you. 6. Do not let that other person control your emotions. One of the hardest things that we run into is the control of our emotions. When we are waiting on someone to make a move we allow our emotions to take over and we worry if the person is going to make the right move when in actuality they aren't thinking about you.I know that it can be hard but being single is not the worst thing in the world and I actually love it but I do not love it forever. Eventually my time will come just like yours, but we need to stop fast forwarding to that time and just press play on the present time. God never intended for this relationship thing to be this hard and for us to be struggling with the fact of another person treating us right. We need to get into amode of prayer that will change our lives. God has someone for us but don't let somebody else play you while God is preparing you for the one you are supposed to have. Forget the lies and broken promises God is here waiting on you to come on home to a life of fulfillment and righteousness. Be easy my friends.